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Women in Midlife and Beyond
This is not the end of something. It is the beginning of something you haven't named yet.
You have spent decades knowing exactly who you were and what was needed of you. And now, for the first time in a long time, that answer is less certain. The roles that defined you are shifting — the children are grown, the career is changing, the relationship looks different, or perhaps it is gone altogether. Somewhere in the middle of all that change you find yourself asking a question you may not have had time to ask before: Who am I now?
That question is not a crisis. It is an invitation. And this is a space to answer it — honestly, at your own pace, with someone who understands this terrain from the inside.
What This Season Actually Looks Like
From the outside it is supposed to look like freedom. And sometimes it does. But it can also feel like the structure that held your days together has quietly dissolved. The identity you built around being needed is untethered. The feelings that surface — grief, restlessness, relief, loneliness, excitement — often arrive all at once and without a name.
This season rarely gets taken seriously. You are expected to be grateful, to enjoy the quiet, to finally focus on yourself — as if that were simple after decades of focusing on everyone else.
What You May Be Carrying
The empty nest — part of you is proud. Another part is grieving something real — the daily purpose, the rhythm, the uncomplicated feeling of being needed. Both things can be true at once.
A relationship that looks different now — some couples find they have grown apart without noticing. Others rediscover each other. And some women arrive here alone — divorced, widowed, or simply single after years of giving themselves to everyone else. Whoever you are in this, the question of who you are in relationship — or without one — matters deeply now.
Career reinvention or retirement — work is not just income. It is identity, purpose, structure. Stepping back from it, changing it, or finally pursuing what you always put last requires real grief and real intention.
Unfinished business — this season surfaces what was buried under years of busyness. Old wounds, unresolved grief, things set aside because there was always something more urgent. They don't disappear. They wait.
What We Work On Together
Who you are outside of your roles — mother, wife, professional, caretaker. Real parts of you — but not all of you. We find what is underneath and what is ready to emerge.
Grief and loss — the losses of this season are real and often invisible to everyone around you. We give them space without rushing you toward gratitude before you are ready.
Relationships — rebuilding a long partnership, being on your own, or learning what connection looks like now. We explore what you need and what you deserve.
Career and purpose — what comes next when the path that carried you this far no longer fits? We look at what you value, what lights you up, and what a meaningful next chapter looks like — specifically for you.
Your body and this season — the psychological and emotional dimensions of physical change and aging in a culture that doesn't always honor what women become with time.
Healing what surfaces — trauma-informed approaches including EMDR, IFS, and Hypnotherapy. Working at the level where so much of this lives — in the body, beneath conscious thought, in the places words alone don't reach.Building a life that is actually yours — not the one you inherited, not the one you built for everyone else, but the one that fits who you are becoming right now.
Why Work With Me
I am a woman navigating this season myself. I know the disorientation of looking up from years of building and finding the landscape has shifted. The quiet excitement underneath the uncertainty. The grief that arrives without warning. The courage it takes to become someone new when you have been someone else for so long.
I bring over 25 years of clinical experience working with women through life's most demanding transitions. Much of what surfaces in midlife has roots that go back much further — things manageable when life was busy but louder in the quiet. I work with the whole person — psychological, relational, spiritual, embodied — because women in this season deserve nothing less.
Offering video sessions across all of California
